How to Choose a Trustee or Agent Under a Power of Attorney

When you create an estate plan, you’re not just filling out paperwork—you’re placing your trust in others to carry out your wishes when you’re no longer able to do so yourself. These trusted individuals are called fiduciaries, and they are legally obligated to act in your best interest and in the interest of your beneficiaries.

Fiduciaries may serve in several important roles, including:

  • Trustee (manages assets in your trust),
  • Agent under a Power of Attorney (handles decisions if you’re incapacitated), and
  • Executor (administers your estate after your death).

Choosing the right people—and naming backups—is one of the most important steps you can take to protect your legacy and your loved ones.

Trustee: Managing Your Trust After You’re Gone

For many people, a revocable living trust is the foundation of a solid estate plan. During your lifetime, you’ll usually act as your own trustee, keeping full control of your accounts and property. But your successor trustee—the person or institution who takes over if you become incapacitated or pass away—is the one who ensures that everything is managed or distributed according to your wishes.

Your successor trustee will only manage the assets titled in your trust. Any accounts or property that aren’t in your trust will need to be handled by someone else, such as an agent under a financial power of attorney or your executor during probate. That’s why funding your trust properly—and choosing the right trustee—is critical.

Things to consider when choosing a trustee:

  • Do they understand financial matters, or will they seek help when needed?
  • Are they organized and detail-oriented?
  • Will they treat all beneficiaries fairly?
  • Would a professional trustee or institution be more appropriate due to family dynamics or complexity?

Powers of Attorney: Who Makes Decisions If You Can’t?

Powers of attorney are legal tools that allow someone else—your agent—to make decisions for you if you’re alive but incapacitated. You can name the same person for all types of powers or choose different people based on their strengths.

Financial Power of Attorney

This document allows your agent to manage accounts and property that are not held in your trust. For example, your agent may pay bills, file taxes, or handle business transactions on your behalf.

  • A family member or close friend can serve as your agent, or
  • A professional (like a trust company) can be named, though they usually charge fees.

Healthcare Power of Attorney

This lets you name someone to make medical decisions for you if you’re unable to speak for yourself. You can also include other advance directives (like a living will) to clarify your wishes about life-sustaining treatment, organ donation, or pain management.

Tips for selecting your healthcare agent:

  • Choose someone who will honor your healthcare preferences—even if they differ from their own. 
  • Make sure they are comfortable asking questions and advocating on your behalf.
  • Ideally, pick someone who lives nearby or is willing to travel quickly.

Executor: Handling Your Estate After Death

Your executor (also known as a personal representative in some states) is responsible for managing the probate process, paying debts and taxes, and distributing your property according to your will.

Depending on the complexity of your estate and your family dynamics, you may want to name:

  • A family member or friend who knows your wishes well, or
  • A professional executor, such as a lawyer, CPA, or trust company, especially for more complicated estates.

Qualities to look for in an executor:

  • Dependability and follow-through
  • Ability to stay neutral and work well with beneficiaries
  • Willingness to seek professional help when needed (such as legal or tax advice)

Being an executor is time-consuming and can be emotionally taxing, especially for a grieving spouse or child. Consider naming someone who has the time and temperament for the task—or ask your loved ones whether they’d prefer a professional handle it instead.

Choose Wisely—Then Rest Easy

Selecting the right people to serve as your fiduciaries isn’t always easy, but it’s one of the best ways to ensure your wishes are carried out smoothly. These roles come with real responsibilities, so it’s important to think through each decision and discuss your choices with the people you name.

At The Binder Firm, we’re here to walk you through every step of the process—from evaluating potential fiduciaries to making sure your estate plan is thorough, clear, and up to date. Let us help you build peace of mind for whatever lies ahead.

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